Last updated on January 6th, 2019
I recently met up with my friend Jen for lunch and she told me that she and her husband were looking to buy their first home.
They have been renting for a couple of years while saving money for a down payment and they had finally put enough way to start seriously shopping around.
She is very excited and we talked a lot about about neighborhoods, school systems and mortgage options while we munched on pizza.
She mentioned they had used an online mortgage calculator to estimate their monthly payment.
I told her that’s a great start but as a homeowner myself I know there are many other expenses involved in owning a home besides the monthly mortgage payment. If you forget about or underestimate these expenses you could find yourself paying a lot more than you had planned.
Below I’ve listed some commonly forgotten expenses that factor into the real cost of owning a home.
Depending on where you live, property taxes can either be affordable or absolutely back-breaking. Here in New Jersey we have some of the highest property taxes in the country.
I live in an average-sized home in an average suburban town and our tax bill this year is about $10,400.
That is NOT a typo!
The taxes on a similar size home in other states might be half of what we pay, or less.
Depending on where you live property taxes can be huge expense and you need to be prepared for them.
Property taxes are not a fixed expense. Expect them to go up every year.
Something to keep in mind if you’re looking to purchase a townhouse or condo: homeowner’s association fees.
HOA fees cover the costs of maintaining shared areas such as sidewalks, parking lots, lawns, swimming pools, and elevators. They pay for everything from landscaping in the spring to snow removal in the winter.
Costs will vary wildly depending on what kind of amenities the community has and how effectively the association manages the funds.
No one likes paying for insurance, but most lenders will require you to purchase a homeowner’s insurance policy.
Even if they don’t, skipping homeowner’s insurance is a bad idea that may come back to haunt you. You want to make sure your home and belongings are protected without overpaying so it always makes sense to shop around for the best rates.
You may be able to get a multiple policy discount if you use the same carrier for your other insurance needs.
If you’re currently renting, you may already be paying for your own utilities like water, gas, and electricity.
But the bigger your home the more expensive your utility bills will be. We learned that the hard way when we moved to a bigger house and realized our utilities would be more than we anticipated.
You can try to estimate your costs but it’s tough to do until you’re actually living there. For example, how much heat you use in the winter could depend on how well insulated the home is and the efficiency of the heating system.
A home doesn’t just manage itself. There is always something that needs to be fixed, replaced, or redone.
Some projects can be considered home improvement, such as painting the baby’s room, upgrading the landscaping, or installing new kitchen cabinets.
Other projects are just considered regular maintenance.
When the carpet wears out it needs to be ripped out and when the roof gets old and starts leaking it needs to be repaired or replaced.
These are major expenses and you need to plan ahead for them because sooner or later you’ll need to deal with them.
Rest assured there will always be some project dipping its fingers into your wallet.
A week after buying our first home the main sewer line clogged and we needed to call a plumber to snake it. A few months later the dryer died and needed to be replaced.
A few months after buying our second home Hurricane Sandy ripped off a bunch of our roof tiles and tore down a section of the backyard fence.
The fence I was able to fix myself and the repairs to the roof cost me $600. I didn’t bother going through insurance since my deductible was $500 anyway and I needed the repairs done ASAP since another storm was due to hit.
Fortunately my neighbor had a contractor he knew working on his own roof and they were able to run across the street and fix mine in a just a few hours.
My point is that unexpected expenses like these will pop up from time to time, and they usually happen at the worst possible time.
If you have money put aside in an emergency fund you’ll be able to cover these unexpected expenses without having to charge them on your credit card.
Many first-time homeowners underestimate the time involved in maintaining their home.
Besides home improvement projects and fixing things that break, you need to devote time to cleaning, landscaping, and other maintenance tasks.
Individually they may not seem like much, but the time spent doing them really adds up.
For example, if I don’t spend at least a little time each weekend working in the yard things will quickly get out of control.
The lawn needs mowing, the hedges need trimming, and the trees need pruning. Cleaning up all the leaves every fall is a multiple weekend job.
The same goes for cleaning (especially with three kids, a cat, and a dog running around). And the bigger house you buy the more rooms and space you need to clean.
Time is money. – Benjamin Franklin
Of course you can hire landscapers and a cleaning service so you have more free time, but that’s just another expense you’ll have to build into your monthly budget. One way or the other it will cost you.
When you first move into a new house there will be all sorts of things you’ll need, especially if your new home is much bigger than where you lived previously.
You may be excited to finally have a formal dining room, but that also means you need to buy a dining room set.
You’ll also feel pressure to keep up with what your neighbors are doing.
Your do-it-yourself landscaping may look a bit shabby next to your neighbor’s professionally manicured lawn. When your friends down the street set up a backyard pool or swing set for their kids, you might decide to get one for your little ones too.
Of course these aren’t mandatory purchases and if you are disciplined you will be perfectly content to do without them.
But if you feel a strong need to keep up with the Joneses you will definitely feel pressure to spend more money on these types of things.
If you’re searching for a home, have you considered all of the expenses we discussed above? If you’re already a homeowner, what expenses surprised you most when you first purchased your home.